You should always consider all options before confronting your spouse that has been caught cheating on you. It is a good idea to have a phone close by in case things get out of hand. Let someone know, like a family member or close friend, that you may be calling on them for help. Of course, if things turn violent, you must dial 9-1-1 immediately.
People take this kind of confrontation many ways. They either put up a fight by denying the charges, or they flee. The ones that stay and deny, and become defensive understand all that is at stake. They know what they can lose by their infidelity. The person who runs away already has it in their mind that the relationship is over, and was probably hoping to get caught so that they can begin their relationship with the other person.
Either way, it is always a good idea to speak to your attorney before any confrontations. Upon obtaining the proof of adultery by a private investigator, it is a wise decision to act immediately. You have the ball in your court, and the longer you wait, the quicker the relationship with the paramour may be ended. Unless, of course, your private investigator has already given you all the proof you need to go to court.
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